How do I improve my autistic child’s eye contact?

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How do I improve my autistic child’s eye contact?

Eye contact is an important social skill that is often difficult for children with autism to develop. Here are a few strategies that may be helpful in improving an autistic child’s eye contact:

  1. Use visual supports: Visual supports, such as pictures or written lists, can be helpful for children with autism to understand what is being said and to make eye contact. You could use a picture of the person speaking or a picture of the object being discussed to help your child focus their attention and make eye contact.
  2. Use positive reinforcement: Encourage your child to make eye contact by using positive reinforcement, such as praise or rewards. You could also try offering a small reward or privilege for making eye contact.
  3. Play eye contact games: There are many fun games and activities that can help your child improve their eye contact. For example, you could play a game where you hide an object and have your child find it by looking at your eyes and following your gaze.
  4. Model eye contact: Children with autism often learn through observation and imitation, so it can be helpful to model good eye contact for your child. Try making eye contact with your child when you are speaking to them and encourage them to do the same.
  5. Practice social skills: Children with autism may have difficulty with social skills, such as making eye contact or engaging in conversation. It can be helpful to practice these skills with your child in a structured and supportive environment. You could try using social stories or role-playing activities to help your child understand how to make eye contact and engage with others.

It’s important to be patient and consistent when working on improving your child’s eye contact. It may take time and multiple attempts before your child becomes more comfortable with making eye contact, but with patience and encouragement, they may eventually be more successful in this area. If you are having difficulty improving your child’s eye contact, it can be helpful to work with a therapist or a specialist for additional guidance and support.

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