There are a few strategies you can try to get your autistic child’s attention:
Use their name
Now I fully appreciate this is obvious but it is easy to fall into bad habits of just saying things like “come here” as opposed to “come here James”.
It is also important to say their name in a friendly, positive tone and be consistent with the name as opposed to using nicknames or abbreviations.
Make eye contact
Making eye contact is a powerful way to communicate and can help to get your autistic child’s attention. Again this may be half of the battle during early stages but one way in which you can improve eye contact is to hold desirable objects like food or toys up to your eyes.
Try to only give the reward to your child when they make good eye contact.
Use gestures
Using gestures such as waving your hand or pointing can help to draw your child’s attention to you.
Use visual cues: Children with autism may be more responsive to visual cues. Using objects or pictures to communicate can be effective in getting their attention.
Establish routines
Establishing routines and using them consistently can help your child know what to expect and can make it easier for them to pay attention.
Use rewards
Positive reinforcement can be effective in getting your child’s attention. You could use stickers, small toys, or other rewards to encourage your child to pay attention.
Be patient
It may take your child longer to process information and respond. It is important to be patient and give them time to respond.
Use their interests
Children with autism may be more likely to pay attention to things they are interested in. If you can incorporate their interests into activities, they may be more engaged.
Use positive language
Using positive language and avoiding negative or critical language can help to create a positive, receptive environment for your child.
Use body language
Using calm, firm body language can help to convey that you are serious and expect your child to pay attention. Avoid using aggressive or angry body language, as this can be counterproductive.
It is important to keep in mind that every child is different, and what works for one child may not work for another. It may take some trial and error to find strategies that work for your child.
Feel free to browse our site for more tips and help raising your autistic child. Alternatively you can visit the UK’s National Autistic Society or the US’s Autism Association.
