How to play with an autistic child

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A collection of parents navigating our way around raising children with autism

How to play with an autistic child

Learning how to play with an autistic child can be a fun and rewarding experience. It’s important however to understand their needs and preferences.

Here are some tips on how to play with an autistic child:

Find out their interests

Every child is different, and this applies to autistic children as well. Take the time to find out what they like to do and what they’re interested in, and try to incorporate those interests into playtime.

Use structure and routine

Autistic children often thrive on structure and routine. Having a set schedule for playtime can help them feel more comfortable and engaged.

A good example would be to try and play at the same time each day, perhaps after dinner. You could also incorporate a play mat which is only taken out at specific times when you intend to play with your child.

Avoid sensory overload

Some autistic children may be sensitive to noise, light, or touch, so it’s important to be mindful of these sensitivities when playing with them.

Learning how to play with an autistic child may take patience

Play at their pace

Autistic children may have different play styles, and it’s important to respect their pace. Let them take their time and avoid pushing them too hard.

Use non verbal cues

Autistic children may have difficulty with verbal communication, so using nonverbal cues, such as pointing or gestures, can help with understanding and interaction.

Offer choice

Allowing an autistic child to choose activities or toys can help them feel more in control and comfortable during playtime.

Be patient

Autistic children may need more time to adjust to new situations, so it’s important to be patient and flexible. If they become overwhelmed or need a break, respect their needs and take a break.

Encourage interaction

While some autistic children may prefer solitary play, it’s important to encourage social interaction as well. This can be done through cooperative games or by playing alongside each other.

Summary

Knowing how to play with an autistic child can lead to wonderful experiences for you both.

By finding out their interests, using structure and routine, avoiding sensory overload, playing at their pace, using nonverbal cues, offering choice, being patient and flexible, and encouraging social interaction, you can create a fun and engaging playtime that’s tailored to their needs.

Feel free to browse our archive for more information on all things autism. Alternatively you can visit the UK’s National Autistic Society’s website here.

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A collection of parents navigating our way around raising children with autism.

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