If your autistic child is constantly throwing things it can be very challenging, we explore how you may be able to stop the behaviour.

In the below article we delve into the behaviour and give you some tactics and ideas to try.

Autism and throwing

One of the first things to be aware of is that throwing objects is a common behaviour for many autistic children. Whilst every child is unique there are often common trends which can be useful in finding a solution.

Identify triggers

One reason why an autistic child may throw things is because of sensory seeking behaviour.

Some children with autism have sensory processing issues and may find certain sensory experiences to be stimulating.

It may be the sensation of throwing an object or the sound of an object hitting a surface, to be stimulating or comforting.

You will be well served to spend a period of time watching and noting your child’s behaviour.

It may be for example that they start throwing objects when the TV is on or you are on the phone.

Whatever their triggers may be once armed with that information you can set about tackling the issue.

Provide alternative sensory input

As it is likely your autistic child is throwing objects as a way to seek sensory input, it may be helpful to provide an alternative.

You could operate a method of trial and error, such as trying a weighted blanket, toys with sensory audible feedback or engaging in other types of physical activity.

If you have your triggers nailed down you could bring out the sensory distractions at appropriate times.

Remove the objects

Something which you may well have considered is removing the opportunity for your child to throw objects.

For example if they enjoy throwing figurines from a toy box you could temporarily remove them all. Likewise with decorative stones in the garden.

It is likely that your child has developed a routine with the throwing behaviour so although drastic, removing the objects may break the habit.

Reward good behaviour

It is really important to acknowledge good behaviour when trying to stop something disruptive like throwing.

This positive reinforcement is particularly impactful when you manage to get your child to stop engaging in the behaviour.

You could operate some sort of a reward mechanism or utilise emotion cards to show that their actions made you happy.

Reduce the sensory desire

It is common for children engaging in throwing to do so because they like the sound of the object hitting the floor.

Although it is at the more drastic end of the scale you could consider laying a rug or even installing carpet.

Your child will quickly learn that throwing the objects does not give the same sensory feedback which could end the behaviour.

Summary – How to stop an autistic child throwing things

It is important to understand the underlying reasons why an autistic child may be throwing objects.

Once armed with that information parents can address the behaviour in a way that is supportive and effective.

By working to identify and address the underlying causes of the behaviour, parents can help their autistic child to develop more positive coping strategies.