If you have an autistic child who is always singing then you are not alone.

In this article we explore the behaviour and provide some strategies to help.

Autism and singing

There are any number of behaviours which an autistic child may develop, some of which will turn into a repetitive one.

From an outsider’s point of view if your child is always singing you may question is it that bad?

Autistic children can engage in all sorts of behaviours from screaming, to head banging to opening and closing doors.

But talking from experience I can fully appreciate how what can appear to be quite innocent behaviours can be disruptive and challenging.

Why may they sing?

Well this is the million dollar question and like so much with autism it will be dependent on the individual child.

What may help however is to provide some common causes for this sort of behaviour;

Self Stimulation

The majority of autistic children have some sort of self stimulative behaviours, or stims.

These are where the child performs some sort of repetitive behaviour which often provides some sensory feedback.

Typical stims include flapping of their hands or spinning but there are more subtle stims in which singing may be one.

It is possible that your child likes the sensory feedback the activity provides.

When you think about it, singing provides vibration and also noise, both of which may be pleasant to your child.

If you think this is relevant to your child then you could consider providing some sort of sensory alternative.

Something like a weighted blanket or LED light display may provide them some sensory feedback they desire.

Blocking out sensory input

It may also be that your child is singing actually in order to block out external input.

Some autistic children can be overwhelmed by noises, lights or smells which ultimately make them feel uncomfortable.

By singing in may be that your child is attempting to block out everything else which is bombarding their senses.

This behaviour provides them some control of their environment and this can be appealing to an autistic child.

If you think this cause is relevant to your child you could consider providing headphones or ear defenders.

Communication struggles

The singing could also be a manifestation of communication challenges.

It is well known that autistic children regularly have delayed communication and it may be that your child is trying to bridge that gap.

They could have for example memorised a certain part of a favourite song and although not able to converse they remember they can sing.

If you believe the singing is related to communication difficulties you may want to try some alternative forms of communication.

These can include picture cards, sign language or electronic devices.

Dealing with stress and anxiety

The world can be a confusing and overwhelming place for some autistic children.

Autistic children may therefore constantly sing as a way to cope with emotions or stress.

Singing can be a form of self-expression and can help autistic children regulate their emotions.

For example, if your child is feeling anxious or overwhelmed, singing may be a way for them to release tension and feel more calm.

Personal choice

It is worth remembering that singing is a favourite pastime for many people across the world.

Yes it is likely that the constant singing may be linked to your child’s condition but it also may just be that they are musically inclined.

You could try to embrace this interest in music and even guide it in the direction of an instrument and creative arts.

Summary – Autistic child always singing?

If your autistic child is always singing there could be any number of reasons behind the behaviour.

You will be well advised to set a period of investigation in that you should note when, where and why you believe they burst into song.

It may be that you notice some patterns in the behaviour which would then go on and guide your intervention strategies.

If singing is interfering with your child’s ability to engage in other activities or development, you may want to take action.

If home based intervention isn’t working it may be helpful to work with a therapist or counselor to develop strategies.