Autism – What To Do When Overstimulated

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Autism – What To Do When Overstimulated

Raising a child with ASD can be rewarding but challenging, one consideration for parents is what to do when their child with autism is overstimulated?

In the below article we look at some reasons why your child may be overstimulated and what you can do.

Autism and overstimulation

Parents in our position often come across daily hurdles which need to be cleared.

One such challenge is dealing with an overstimulated autistic child.

In today’s fast-paced world, where sensory inputs are everywhere, children often find themselves overwhelmed.

As parents, it’s our responsibility to guide them through these moments of overstimulation as best as we can.

The key tools in your toolbox will always be empathy, patience, and effective strategies.

Lets explore what overstimulation is, its signs, and how parents can respond to help their children find calmness and balance.

Understanding overstimulation

Overstimulation usually occurs when a child’s senses are bombarded with excessive input.

This can wind up leading to feelings of extreme excitement, distress or agitation.

These inputs can be visual, through sound, through touch, or even emotional.

With the rise of technology and constant exposure to screens, children are more susceptible to experiencing overstimulation.

It’s important for parents to recognise that each child’s threshold varies.

In short, what might be overwhelming for one child may not affect another in the same way.

Autism and what to do when overstimulated

Signs of overstimulation

As parents, it’s crucial to be attuned to the signs of overstimulation in your child.

These signs may include:

Irritability and mood swings

Restlessness and difficulty focusing

Increased sensitivity to lights, sounds, or textures

Clinginess or withdrawal

Frequent tantrums or meltdowns

Excessive stimming

Dealing with overstimulation

When you notice these signs in your child, responding quickly but calmly is key.

Remember, your child isn’t misbehaving intentionally; they’re struggling to cope with an overwhelming situation.

Here are some steps you can take to help:

Create a calm environment

When you notice your child becoming overstimulated, guide them to a quiet and calming space.

Dim the lights, reduce noise, and provide comfort items like a favorite stuffed animal or blanket.

Some parents have had success with such tools as indoor tents for their child to calm in.

Offer physical touch

This is dependant on your child’s sensory needs but physical touch can be soothing.

Hugging, holding, or gently stroking your child’s back can help them feel secure and grounded.

Use calming language

Try to communicate with gentle and reassuring words.

Let your child know that you’re there to support them and that it’s okay to feel overwhelmed sometimes.

Provide a distraction

On this site we often praise the virtue of distractions. However, when dealing with overwhelmed children choosing a distraction becomes tricky.

You naturally would not want to provide a distraction which will overwhelm further.

Consider offering something like a weighted blanket, or a change of activity. Sometimes soft music can help, along with dimming the lights.

Preventing overstimulation

Prevention is as important as dealing with overstimulation.

Implementing strategies to minimize excessive input can make a significant difference in your child’s well-being:

Establish routines

It is well known that routines can be incredibly important to children with autism.

A predictable routine can provide a sense of security for your child. Knowing what to expect throughout the day can help reduce anxiety.

Limit screen time

Set reasonable limits on screen time.

Excessive exposure to screens, especially before bedtime, can disrupt sleep patterns and contribute to overstimulation.

Sometimes transitioning an autistic child from their screens can be a challenge. Perhaps use a viable timer so they know what to expect.

Also it is helpful to have another activity lined up next.

Choose activities wisely

It can often help to keep a log of when your autistic child has become overstimulated.

Look for patterns and preceding activities which lead to the sensation.

Try to engage your child in appropriate activities that promote focus and engagement.

Opt for activities that encourage creativity and controlled physical movement.

Respect boundaries

Pay attention to your child’s cues. If they show signs of needing a break or alone time, respect their boundaries.

Them getting excessively tired can cause overstimulation so perhaps schedule breaks during activities.

Outdoor time

Spending time in nature can have a calming effect on autistic children. Nature can provide a soothing sensory experience that counteracts the overstimulation of other environments.

Summary – Autism and what to do when overstimulated

Navigating the challenges of overstimulation in autism requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to adapt.

As parents, our role is to equip them with the tools they need to cope with overwhelming situations.

By recognising the signs of overstimulation, responding with empathy, and implementing strategies to prevent it, we can create an environment where our children can thrive emotionally and mentally.

Remember, your child’s well-being is worth the effort.

Your understanding and kindness will make all the difference in their journey towards tranquility.

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